I looked up the top New Year’s resolutions/goals for 2017 and they are actually some really awesome goals! The top 7 were:
I do find it interesting though that people will spend lots of money to get healthy. They will spend lots of money to travel and to live life to the fullest and on hobbies. But what fun is it to do these things if you're marriage isn’t happy? Shouldn’t that be the first investment you plan to make? I really wonder where this thinking comes from that people just assume it should all just work out…...eventually. People eventually will never come if YOU don’t do something about it.
First off no marriage is perfect. Second off we could all use some good tools. Third off, I don’t know any marriage that wouldn’t benefit from some extra tender love and care. Knowledge is power. If there is something in your marriage that you're not happy with, or you're not feeling the JOY you want to or you feel that something is just missing. Then pick up a book and learn. Don’t feel like there isn’t hope or another way. There are so many resources to help. It truly is amazing! Knowledge is power. Yes it takes time and work. BUT IT IS SO WORTH IT! Remember don’t settle. You deserve more. Make 2017 be your year to build the marriage you have always wanted. Will it be perfect, NO, no such thing. But it will be mighty dang good! ❤ Happy New Years!
"I don't believe you have to be better than everybody else. I believe you have to be better than you ever thought you could be."